PREVIEW – Farmingdale vs. Massapequa

One of the biggest and most intense high school rivalries continues today at Burns Park as the Chiefs take on the Dalers of Farmingdale.  Massapequa is off to a solid start as they are 6-1 on the year (2-0 in their Conference) as their only loss was to Smithtown East in a one-goal game.  After graduating almost 17 seniors last

Despite being young, the Chiefs are made up of a bunch athletes who are skilled with HI Lax IQs. They will have a tough match-up today against a very sound Farmingdale defense who is good in transition. Photo Taken By FLG Lacrosse

year the Chiefs are still prime for a shot at a County Championship.  Led by Senior Brendan Nichtern (Army Commit) and James Hall (Adelphi Commit) on the attack and senior middie Sal Ienna (Binghamton Commit) the Chiefs have shown serious promise in 2017.  On top of that, the Chiefs have an abundance of talented underclassmen who are playing a huge role in the Chiefs early success.  With the addition of Coach Powers, the Chiefs have been running two middie lines that play both ways.  They like to play fast in transition, control the ball, and break down defenses with their dodging ability.  On the defensive side of the ball, Senior leader Michael Peco (Hofstra Commit) alongside junior Griffin Horthawn (Leigh Commit) and Brian Lenehan have a toughness and swagger about thier game. They hope to shut down the fast-paced Dalers on their quest to a Nassau Class A Championship. 

Asst. Coach Eric Dunne prepares his defense to keep the Chiefs skilled and savvy offensive group in check. Photo Taken by FLG Lacrosse

After losing key players, Matt DeLuca (University of Delaware), Tommy McPartland (Mercy College), Steve Kunz (University of Albany) and Legendary coach Bob Hart the Dalers are now headed by Mike Hungerford and his assistants John Campbell, Eric Dunne, and Kenny Garia to lead this Senior heavy team. The Dalers are led by players like; Kyle Tucker (Cabrini University), Senior Attack having a total of 16 goals for the season so far, Darrin Simons (Stony Brook University), senior Middie with a total of 14 goals, Kevin McCormick (Uncommitted) Junior, LSM scoring a total of 3 goals in the season thus far, Brian Michael (Air Force) Junior FOGO scoring 2 goals so far, and Brody Agres (St. Johns University), Junior Goalie saving a total of 66 shots. The team is looking stronger than ever hoping to take home a County Championship. The Dalers are looking good this season as they are 7-1. The Dalers only loss was to West Islip by 2. The Dalers are going into tomorrow’s game ready, with the hope of bringing a key victory back to Farmingdale.

MASSAPEQUA:

  • Brendan Nichtern – Attack – West Point Commit – Captain – 3 Year Player
  • Sal Ienna – Midfield – Binghamton Commit – Captain – 4 Year Players
  • James Hall – Attack – Adelphi Commit
  • Garrett Gibbons  – Midfield – Maryland Commit – Sophomore
  • Angelo Petrakis – Fogo – Leigh Commit – Sophomore
  • Mike Peco  – Defenseman – Leader of the Defense – Hofstra Commit

FARMINGDALE:

  • Kyle Tucker, Attack, Senior, Cabrini
  • Darrin Simmons, Midfield, Stony Brook
  • Kevin McCormick, LSM, Junior, Uncommitted
  • Brody Agres, Junior, Goalie, St. John’s
  • Brian Michael, Junior, FOGO, Air Force

Game Time: 4pm

Location: John Burns Park, Massapequa, NY

Updates: Twitter @FLGLAX

 
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PREVIEW – Laxin’ For Autism

This week’s prime time girls and boys lacrosse matchups will all be in support of Autism.  Four boys teams and four girls teams will square up on Wednesday and Thursday in support of the cause.  Since April is Autism Awareness month, it’s great to see local high schools using their sports teams to help raise awareness.  Donations for the cause will be accepted at the gates before every game.  All proceeds will benefit the Spectrum of Dreams Foundations and Sachem Students with Special Needs.  At every game, food and drinks will be available along with “Laxin’ for Autism” t-shirts.  On top of that, there will be activities for kids, youth lacrosse halftime games, and a 50/50 raffle.  Hopefully, people will come down and watch some great lacrosse games while showing support for a great cause.

The game which will kick off the Laxin’ for Autism day will be on Wednesday, April 19th at 4:30 pm between Sachem East and Northport. Sachem East is 4-4 on the season as of now. Wednesday is a great opportunity for this team to capture their first quality win of the season.  All four of their W’s this year were to “middle of the pack” teams and they seemed to struggle against the powerhouse schools. If leading scorers Jake Kelleher and Pete Engelken can continue to step up for East, they’ve got a shot to beat some of the higher seeds in Suffolk A. Starting Long Stick Midfielder, Chris Kouimanis, is a beast between the lines and can really get East going in transition. 

On the other side of the bench, you have Northport, who sits at 2-4 and is hoping to gain some kind of momentum.  Similar to Sachem East, Northport has had a tough time capturing a quality win against a powerhouse school. This season, Northport has fallen to Syosset, West Islip, Ward Melville, Huntington, and Connetquot. Even though Northport hasn’t beaten a quality opponent of late, they have been in every game. Justin Roderka is leading the way with 22 goals and 5 assists on the season, putting him in the top 20 in goals on the Island. Despite Roderka putting up points, Northport has lost to Syosset, West Islip, and Ward Melville by a combined 10 goals, including a one-goal loss Syosset to open the season. If Northport can start clicking offensively and win the close game, they will go from knocking on the door to beating down quality opponents such as Sachem East and the rest of Suffolk A. 

Following the East v. Northport game will be Sachem North facing-off against Huntington at 7:00 pm on the Stadium field.  Sachem North is 3-2 on the year, suffering two tough losses where they lost by 2 goals or less.  Led by James Avanzato (Maryland Commit) and Anthony Coppola (Binghamton Commit), North is a team that is young and under the radar. If you get these two studs going early, North can put up serious points on the scoreboard. They will have to be weary for opponents shutting off Avanzato & Coppola. If that’s the case, their young attack will have to step-up. Brothers, Frank & Christian Quadrino work alongside big righty finisher Connor Griffin. Those three are crafty, work well in tandem, and have high lacrosse iqs. North has some solid two-way middies, including Scott Smith, which should lead to some transition goals. A steady defense lead by seniors Ryan McAllister, John Mandola, and net-minder Mike Inzone, North has quality talent at all positions.

James Avanzado of Sachem North driving from X against in conference opponent Commack. Photo by FLG Lacrosse, Inc.

Huntington is 2-5, as they are trying to stay alive and hopefully cause some problems for a good under the radar team in Sachem North. Don’t be deceived by the Blue Devils 5 losses. They’ve gone through a buzz-saw early on this season. With opponents like Ward Melville, West Islip, Connetquot, and cross-town rival Cold Spring Harbor, it’s obvious that Huntington is making sure they can play some of the best teams prior to Conference play. Garrett Moya has 30 points on the season. His balanced game provides some stability and consistency for the Devils. You have to respect Huntington’s push to play some of the best talent on the island. But, if this team wants to demand respect from the conference and fans, they’ve got to start knocking off these top teams. 

On Thursday, April 20th the girls Laxin’ For Autism day will draw-off between Sachem East and Northport.  The Sachem East girls squad is 3-3 on the year as they dominated Commack, Brentwood, and Floyd. However, they took their lumps in their 3 losses as they lost all three of those games by at least 9 goals. Leading scorer, Morgan Benedectis will have to step-up is East has any chance against a young, but highly talented Northport group.

Northport is cruising in 2017, as they are currently 5-0 and have bullied every team played.  Olivia Carner and Danielle Pavinelli have asserted themselves as stars this year. Carner is a sophomore committed to Duke University and Pavinelli is a freshman committed to play at Florida University.  Both girls have excellent styles of play and intelligence out on the field and have asserted Northport as a powerhouse team. Carner is top 20 in Suffolk in points and Pav top 30. If Northport’s Emerson Cabrera can continue filling up the goal, Northport should have no problem remaining undefeated in 2017. 

Olivia Carner of Northport set to take a free-position shot against West Islip earlier this season. Photo by FLG Lacrosse, Inc.

Following the 4:30 PM game, Sachem North will go up against Ward Melville in what hopes to be a great game.  Sachem North is 4-2 on the year while suffering a close loss to Smithtown West and Northport.  If you don’t already know about Eve Calabria, you should definitely tune into this game and see what she does. Eve is top 5 in Suffolk County in points, with over 20 goals and 24 assists. Calabria has been committed to Bucknell since her freshman year. Being the daughter to Syosset Men’s Lacrosse Head Coach, John Calabria, you know Eve plays with superior lacrosse IQ and toughness. Goal scorers Hailey Rhatigan & Grace Lipponer could be keys to this game as North looks to get their best win of the year.

Meanwhile, Ward Melville is 5-0 and have comfortably won every game. Similar to Northport, Ward Melville is filled with talented girls who know how to play the game at a high level. Earlier this season, Melville upset number 1 ranked Middle Country. This game turned some heads and got lacrosse fans talking about Ward Melville as a legit contender in Suffolk. Ward Melville is very well coached and play incredibly well as a unit. No one player dominates the game, but collectively they put together complete games that make playing them a difficult task. 

We are looking forward to a great two days of lacrosse and hopefully, lots of money raised to support Autism. Be sure to follow FLG Lacrosse on social media to see video, photos, live updates, interviews, and our String King players of the game! 

 
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Kids: Speak For Yourself

Check out an article I wrote for iSport360. Enjoy!

Kids: Speak For Yourself

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A Letter to Rising Seniors

Rising Seniors are the most physically and mentally developed High School athletes going through the recruiting process. Also, rising Seniors are closest to stepping foot on a college campus. College coaches have an easier time projecting rising seniors, as opposed to rising juniors, sophomores, or freshman.

At FLG Lacrosse, we run one of the most competitive individual showcases for rising Seniors. We understand the importance of getting rising senior’s exposure. Our Premier Showcases bring in some of the best schools from around the country that are all still looking at the 2018 graduating class.

Are you unsure if you want to play in college?

If that’s the case, don’t worry, you’re not alone. Despite the uncertainty, it’s still important to proactively network with college coaches and attend recruiting events to come Summer of 2017. It’s important to keep the door open and develop relationships with college coaches going into your senior year. Fostering relationships with college coaches gives you a unique advantage. College coaches have a lot of valuable information about their schools. They can educate lacrosse recruits on their student body, the size of the school, financial aid packages, academic grants or scholarships, and much more. This recruiting process shouldn’t be just about committing and playing in college. It should be a continuous educational process that includes learning about all the amazing schools, conferences, and coaches out there!

Are you fed up with the recruiting process?

I’ve spoken to numerous parents and rising Seniors who are fed up with the process. Attending poor events, not getting the exposure you expected, playing on teams with favoritism can all be contributing factors. Don’t let one or a few bad experiences stop you from pursuing your dreams. There are lots of great events and showcases out there to help get you exposure. Before attending an event, be sure to get a reference from someone who attended in the past. If you don’t know anyone who attended, call the event directly. If they don’t pick-up the phone or answer your email, that’s a red flag and you should move on somewhere else. Do your research, see what looks appealing online, and try to attend events with a good reputation.

Do you feel all college programs already have their recruiting classes set in place?

If you look at the top Ten Division I programs, that might be true. If you are looking at all collegiate lacrosse programs, that simply is not the truth. In fact, over 90% of NCAA Collegiate lacrosse programs are still recruiting the 2018 class. Therefore, there is so much opportunity out there for your class. Go into this summer with an open mind. There is more opportunity out there than you think. Be open to not only building new relationships, attending events, and pursuing your dream schools this summer, but also be open to pursuing new opportunities you never thought about before. Only looking at Division I schools? Time to start connecting with Division II or Division III schools. Only looking at schools with big-time football programs? Start to consider schools with other big time sports where you can still get that ‘RAH-RAH’ experience. Your interests can change not only from year to year but month to month. So, find something that works for you at this moment. We are only 6 weeks away from the summer recruiting season!

If you are experiencing any sort of angst during this process, let someone at FLG let you realize there is hope and there is an opportunity out there for you.  Let us guide you in the right direction and hear your story. We want to hear from you, not your parents. This is your process and this is your future.

To set up a call with myself or another FLG Director, simply click the button below and schedule a time to talk!

Set-up a Call!

We are here to answer questions, guide you through the process, and give you an opportunity. If we don’t have the answers, hopefully, we can find someone else who does.

 
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Getting Un-stuck

Ever feel like you’re stuck? Can’t get out of a specific relationship. You can’t leave your job. You can’t start a specific project. Well, you’re not alone. Getting stuck can be caused by lots of factors. For me, its fear. Fear of the unknown, fear of losing security, fear of recognizing that my fear isn’t even legit after all. Aside from overcoming the fear, below I’ve listed some ways I get myself un-stuck. Hopefully they work for you too:
Get started. Book needs to be read, taxes need to be filed, or paper needs to be written; whatever the project, just start it.
Stop multitasking. Tough to focus on getting 1 project done when you are concerned with 10. Simplify. Channel your energy. Focus on 1.

Focus on one thing for a specific period of time. 4 minutes. 4 hours. Whatever floats your boat. Most importantly, you’ve contributed something, always better than nothing.

Sit in a quiet environment. Find peace. Find your space. Quiet is nice. Nice is quiet.

Don’t focus on finishing focus on the process.

Celebrate the small accomplishments. Pat yourself on the back when you do something right, figure something out, or learn something interesting or new.

Find inspiration. Could be thru your work, music, or food. Get inspired, get to work.

If you have something to say say it.
Throw away the instructions. Don’t be so caught up in the don’t. Do. Go. Make. Create.

 
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The Why?

 

Coach: It’s important to move the ball up the field.

Player: Why move upfield?

Coach: It brings the ball and your team closer to your opponent’s goal.

Player: Why get closer to your opponent’s goal?

Coach: Getting closer to your opponent’s goal gives your team a better chance to score.

 

I encourage players and coaches to ask the question, why?

But, why ask why?

Asking why makes you think more about the purpose of your actions.

The why brings you closer to clearly defining your goals.

Knowing the why can foster positive habits.

The why turn these positive habits into steady development.

Development brings you one step closer to a complete understanding of your goals or what it takes to become great.

The why makes coaches and athletes dig deeper, think harder, and make connections quicker.

Promote the question, why? Don’t shy away from it. After all, what’s the worst that can happen, you have to answer, “I don’t know?” In this case, work together, ask Google, figure out the why?

 

 

 
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ANALYSIS: Smithtown West vs. Smithtown East

Going into this prime-time matchup between Smithtown East vs West, most if not all of us were expecting two high power offenses to flex their muscles and demonstrate their abilities to fill up the goal. In front of a sold-out stadium, with the West fans on one side and the East fans on the other, it was team defense and unbelievable goalie play that defined this game.  A 7-5 finish in favor of Smithtown East was led by Thomas Harkin, the uncommitted reclassified 2018, with 18 save. Harkin was virtually unbeatable,  saving everything high, possessing great footwork along with great hand-eye coordination. If you ask Harkin, we would say his 18 saves was a result of, “the defense talked a lot, 2-slides, hot-slides, we were really communicating and our defense made me look a lot better.” Talk about a team player. On the other side of the field was Ryan Erler, the Senior Stony Brook Commit, who only had 6 saves but every one of those kept West in the game.  Without Erler in net, this game would have been a blowout for the Bulls of the East.

The big three, Desimone, Eschbach, and Burns, for Smithtown East were surprisingly quiet, combining for only 3 points on the day. Desimone did a nice job in the clearing game, riding game, and in transition. With that said,  it was Sean Barry and Michael Latini that asserted themselves as dominant players on the offensive end of the field.  In FLG’s post game interview, Latini said: “It was important for us to play fast in transition but to settle it down so we could have full possessions and run our set offenses”.  Both Barry & Latini has great stick skills and an intelligence about their game to know where the slides are coming from. These two studletes combined for 6 points on the day and really propelled their group to maintain a lead that was never given away.

As for West, Connor Calderone, the Sophomore Maryland Commit, obliterated everyone East threw at him on the face-off X.  The sophomore won 11 face-offs only losing 3. This allowed for West to dominate time of possession throughout the game.  However, it was Smithtown West’s lack of offensive cohesiveness that led to rushed possessions and undesirable shots on goal. Shots right to HArkin’s stick resulted in tired middies and a frustrated offensive unit. East now sitting at 4-2, and is poised to make a run at a County Championship. While West is sitting at 4-3, they still have all the attributes to be a powerhouse team. If they can click offensively and continue to dominant at the X, they can run deep in Suffolk Class A.

 
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PREVIEW: Smithtown West v. Smithtown East

When people think about Long Island lacrosse the first thing that should come to their mind is the rivalry between Smithtown East and West.  Both these programs have produced some of the best lacrosse players the world has ever seen, including Rob Pannell who is the all-time points leader in college lacrosse.

East is packed with experience and talent as they have some of the biggest commits in the country.  Connor Desimone (Hopkins Commit), Bobby Burns (Penn State Commit), and Luke Eschbach (Yale Commit) are the big three for Smithtown East.  All three guys are studs and can score at will.  Desimone is a threat from behind that can beat his man, feed the rock, and put the ball in the back of the net when he needs to.  Bobby Burns is a slick lefty with great stick skills, that can shoot the ball from any angle and has a knack for putting up G-nodes.  Lastly, Eschbach is a big strong righty that can shoot the lights out of the ball while also being very skilled at finding the open spaces on the field. Let’s not forget that East has 4 face-off guys all going D1, two of which are brothers going to Hofstra.  

Connor DeSimone hoping to quarterback his team to a County Championship in his senior year. Connor is a key to the this rivalry game if Smithtown East wants to come out on top. 2016 Highlights from #22 above.

West, on the other hand, is also filled with studs and big time commits.  Kyle Zawadzki, the younger brother of Christian who is currently playing at Maryland, has a great lacrosse IQ and nice stick skills.  Jimmy Cattigan and Danny Riley both two-time all-county players are hoping to step up and have big years. Both Danny and Jimmy were awarded the honor of being captain this season, alongside goalie Ryan Erler, Cameron Brunsvold, and Hunter Greco.

Kyle Zawadzki (Yale Commit) will need to step-up if West has a shot at taking down East in this Rivalry Match-up! Kyle is a key to the game for the Bulls. Photo credit – Newsday.com

Both teams are off to a slower start than anticipated.  Smithtown East has is coming off two tough losses to teams that on paper they probably should have beaten.  West suffered a bad loss to Garden City where they were almost shut out as they lost 6-1.  But throw all previous wins and losses out the window when these two teams come together.  Looked at as one of the biggest rivalries on the island this matchup could be one of the best games of the year.

Prediction: East 15 West 13

 
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ANALYSIS: Northport vs. West Islip

Following a pretty dominant performance, it’s safe to say that the North Port Tigers just might be one of the best teams in Suffolk despite flying under the radar preseason.  Olivia Carner and Danielle Pavinelli asserted themselves as stars with 8 points each.  Not to mention Carner is a sophomore committed to Duke University and Pavinelli is a freshman committed to play at Florida University.  

Danielle Pavinelli (#12 Left) & Olivia Carner (#10 Right) each have 8 points in a convincing victory over West Islip. Being Danielle is only a freshman & Olivia a sophomore, these two aren’t going anywhere anytime soon. Watch out for Northport in years to come!

The Tigers possessed the ball for a majority of the game showing great pace of play and superb defense.  In transition, the Tigers were virtually impossible to stop and scored on almost all their free position shots.  On top of that Claire Morris the Ohio State University commit was lights out in goal saving everything thrown her way.  The Tigers looked like a well-oiled machine on Tuesday, every girl at every position did there job and that led to a pretty significant win to give the Tigers a 4-o start to the season

Despite the scoreboard being tilted towards the Tigers the Lions of West Islip are not to sleep on.  Following a poor first half where nothing seemed to go their way, they picked it up in the second and showed that they can play against a powerhouse team.  The uncommitted junior Samantha Blair definitely stood out as she put up 5 goals and asserted herself as a top player.  

The Lions are a very young team and showed their inexperience on Tuesday with some bad mental mistakes and the inability to capitalize on chances.  However, the young girls of West islip do show promise and in the coming year, the Lions just might be one of the top teams on the island.      

    

 
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Speak For Yourself

This morning driving into the office, I heard a great interview on the radio.

Mike & Mike were interviewing Ernie Johnson the TNT Icon Sportscaster.

He spoke about a story that happened to him when he was 8 years old playing Little League.

In the story, a ball goes over the fence. All the sudden, 2 outfielders climb the fence in search of this lost ball.

After a couple minutes go by, the boys do not return. The coaches decide to go looking for the two boys searching for their missing ball. When the coaches got over the fence they saw the 8-Year-old boys sitting in the woods eating blackberries.

Ernie spoke about how throughout his whole life he reflects back to that day, to realize how important it is to sometimes just enjoy the taste of blackberries.

Youth sports is a great opportunity for all participants and their parents to enjoy the blackberries!

I like to reflect back on my experiences as a parent when helping other parents navigate the process of assisting their kids in life.

Similar to Ernie Johnson, I always go back to one story in particular.

I came home one day after work and noticed my 10th-grade son was not himself.

I asked him, “What’s bothering you son?” He replied, “I’m frustrated with how the coach is handling my playing time.”

My response, “Well, what are you going to do about it?”

He looked at me with a puzzled look on his face and said, “What do you mean, what am I going do about it?”

“Well, speaking to your coach about your feelings would certainly let your coach know where your head is at and even if he doesn’t agree with you, he would certainly respect you for sitting down with him and communicating your thoughts. These are your feelings, your thoughts, therefore, it is your job to communicate with your coach.”

The next night I came home and asked my son, “Did you speak with your Coach?”

“Yes”

“Do you feel better?”

His answer, “Yes. Thanks, Dad.”

I have told numerous parents over the years’ this story, some accept it with open arms and some ignore my words.

Allowing your children to be self-sufficient will empower them. Teach your children to develop their own voice, speak up for themselves, and communicate their feelings in a sincere way. Teach your children to stand up for their beliefs and have that awkward conversation even if it results in an unfavorable response. Your children will be stronger for it. If you ask my son, he’d say the same.

 
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